As I'm getting ready to take Ryan to his hockey game yesterday he shows me his latest Lego creation. He's getting more creative with his Lego. He's starting to build structures and vehicles instead of his regular elaborate battle scenes. Don't get me wrong, his battles and war stories are very complex and strategic. It's just that he's been raging war against the Empire since forever, so I think sometimes I forget how complicated his story lines are. So he's explaining his latest invention and it's really kind of a cool little car with a compartment that can hold stuff. He then tells me that he wants to be a Lego Master Builder. We saw a job posting not too long ago and he's been fixated ever since. I told him that I think that might be a good summer job in a few years when he's older and has some more experience building bigger structures. "Well," he states, "My ADHD gives me extra creativity.". Slightly surprised by this statement, and knowing how my son speaks I asked him who told him that? I mean, I know how fabulous he is and we discuss his creativity all the time. However, I don't think I've ever actually told him that I think he is creative. He relied simply with "H" (a friend of the family). "Well," I relied, "I think she's right.". "YES!" Ryan exclaims in triumph, "Finally...this ADHD thing is good for something!!". Way to see the positive my friend! Clearly we need to do more of that. New Year's resolution #1.
Happy Holidays to everyone! Breath deeply and remember the positives and focus on strengths. Things can go sideways pretty quickly so bring your sense of humor and know that this too shall pass. As my fav author Dr. Seuss says "Those who matter won't mind and those who mind don't matter".
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